At Collective Closets, we believe in individuality, authenticity, and celebrating the power of a woman. As businesswomen, we share the story of our influences and upbringing through our designs and the beautiful textiles we grew up with. We created Collective Conversations to spotlight the amazing women in our community and find out how they share their own stories. This series spotlights members of our tribe, gaining insight into their values, passions, and the drive behind what they do.

This month, we're talking to Tantri Mustika. She's a ceramicist, a small business owner, artist and all-around beautiful human being. 

After spending ten years of her life in hairdressing, Tantri found herself craving a creative, hands-on hobby. She started experimenting with clay, enrolled in a few short courses, started dedicating more time to it with a flood of positive responses and sales enquiries. Her contemporary take on the traditional terrazzo technique is eye-catching, colourful and uniquely hers – much like her vibrant personality.

For this edition of Collective Conversations, we stepped into her stunning Collingwood space (and may have made a purchase or two). We talked about creative identity, self-worth and the influence of music in her Balinese culture.

Follow Tantri here and shop her ceramics here.

Describe yourselves in three words?

Determined, curious, caring.

Why is music such an important medium in your life?

Music has always been really significant in my life. Everyone in my family is musical, I don’t think that I even knew that people ‘weren’t musical’ growing up.. it was just normal to me. My mum would always sing around the house and play loud music, especially when it was time to have people over and entertain.

I have vivid memories of walking up the side of the house and hearing music blaring as I got home after school – it always meant people were coming over for dinner. We'd listen to records and mum would tell me stories about each song and its meaning. Mum has always had extremely good taste in music so I feel very lucky for that.

My aunty was a jazz singer, so I have memories of crawling around on the floor while she and her band played really cool music. She had a huge influence on my music taste and appreciation; she'd take me driving around the block in the car so I could listen to her new favourite song of the week.

In Balinese culture, music is a centre point for all ceremonies of worship and storytelling. My name, Tantri, actually means “joyous music” – Tantri is the music of joyful celebratory occasions, like weddings. When I listen to Balinese music it transports me back to Bali, and weirdly I've recently realised that when I listen to that music it has this very calming, almost centring power over me.

Geez, I don’t even know how to explain why music is so important, it just is! It’s everything. Music to me is just another vital element of life. I listen to music to feel calm, for energy, to reminisce, for motivation, to connect with my heritage and the people around me. It goes without saying that as Melbournians, we're extra lucky because music is a big part of our lives! Music brings people together.

How do you express your creative identity?

I think I express my creative identity through my work and the spaces I create around me. I feel like building this world around me has always been when I'm at my most happy and inspired. I've always been obsessed with moving my room around and decorating, even as a kid (although thankfully my decorating style has evolved and moved away from wall to wall, floor to roof posters and magazine cutouts).

I now have my own shop space and studio to decorate, plus I'm living on my own for the first time! I'm able to be as free in these spaces as I like and don’t have to compromise, so they all fit my creative vision. I'm just so happy when I get to tinker around, changing my space to make it feel nice and welcoming for people to come into my world.

The ceramic things that I make are part of creating my happy place. I make what I do because they're the things I'd want to surround myself with – it’s just a bonus that other people seem to like them too!

What are some things that you are leaving behind, letting go of, or unlearning in order to move forward?

​ I am learning to not be such a perfectionist all the time, so I stop being so hard on myself and actually allow myself the space to enjoy things for what they are. I'm learning to accept myself more kindly for who I am. Oh! And I'm letting go of always apologising all the time.

How does music contribute to your sense of self?

Music holds so many strong memories and significant times in my life, so when I listen to certain music it reminds me of where I’ve come from. All of these things make me who I am today, and being able to transport back to those places through music is so powerful. I guess music can be re-aligning in a way.

What’s a hard lesson that you were grateful to learn?

The value of self-worth. I spent so much time when I was younger bending over backwards, trying to please people only to be left feeling lost, disappointed and so far away from myself. I've experienced times in my life where I've suffered such low self-esteem, I allowed bullying from others and even myself.

I believed I deserved it, so it all became normal to me. I've had to work really hard on my self-worth over the past few years. I'm still putting the work in to rebuild and realign my self-esteem, self-worth and self-respect. It’s something we all deserve but it can slip away so easily when you forget to care for yourself.

I'm much happier and in-tune with my own identity now that I hold value in myself. I care a lot less about what others think of me than I did before.

What relationships are you grateful for?

I'm grateful for the strong female friendships I have in my life. I'm surrounded by compassionate, strong, accepting and kind girlfriends! They uplift me and make me feel like even when I'm being a total weirdo, I'm loved and supported.

I'm extremely grateful for my relationship with my mum and the way it's growing and changing as we co-exist as two adult women. She's my biggest supporter and always backs me up (even if she's a little hesitant at first)!

She's always the first person to put her hand up to work a stupidly long day doing a stupidly boring task that needs to be done in my business. I actually couldn’t have gotten over the finish line of some big things without her unconditional support over the past couple of years!

How would you style a look from the Songa Pamoja collection?

​I think I'd go all out matchy-matchy and wear the Mdunao shirt open over a white singlet and tucked into the Amani culotte pants. I'd add some nice white sneakers and top it all off with the Asili reversible sun hat! Strong summer vibes!

Do you have a happy memory you associate with a particular song?

Yes! 'Still a Friend of Mine' by incognito. My mum, my aunty and I used to listen to this song heaps when I was little. There's this really upbeat simplicity about it and a nice message about friendship. It was always one of those songs where if it came on, we'd all burst into harmonies and sing in unison at the top of our lungs. Anytime I hear this song I think of the three of us being silly, singing and laughing together!

Is there a particular song that has become a mantra to your life? Can I pick two?

I can't choose just one! ‘On & On' by Erykah Badu and ‘I Like That’ by Janelle Monáe.

Outside of what we know, have you fostered any hobbies/interests over the past year? Tell us about it.

​I just love building things! I've grown a particular affection for Bunnings and power tools. I've always liked to DIY things but my COVID hobby has been upcycling, Mostly tinkering and making it up until I end up with something cool and unique that no one else has.

I've taught myself so many handy little tricks and I think I'm actually getting alright at making more complex projects now! It's a fun departure from making ceramics, because it's more of an instant gratification. You think of it, you make it and it comes to fruition right in front of your eyes!

 Sabina wears our Sura A-line Dress.

At Collective Closets, we believe in individuality, authenticity, and celebrating the power of a woman. As businesswomen, we share the story of our influences and upbringing through our designs and the beautiful textiles we grew up with. We created Collective Conversations to spotlight the amazing women in our community and find out how they share their own stories. This series spotlights members of our tribe, gaining insight into their values, passions, and the drive behind what they do.

This month we're talking to Sabina McKenna, Melbourne-based curator, model, arts/culture writer and founder of Where are you from?, a project aimed to celebrate, educate and raise awareness about the Black/PoC experience.

Sabina greeted us into her Northern suburbs home on a foggy weekend morning, her elderly rescue dog Bubba planted firmly by her side. As dynamic, knowledgeable and beautiful as the work she so thoughtfully creates, Sabina was the perfect fit for our aptly named Wisdom collection.

With a creative passion close to our hearts, her projects exploring the themes of identity, belonging and diversity really resonated with the conversations we try to foster in our community. We took home a copy of her Hair zine (part of the WAYF project) and felt enormous pride in seeing the portraits of Naarm-based womxn we're lucky enough to know – and those we can't wait to meet.

Describe yourself in 3 words?

Loyal, driven, ambitious.

What’s the best advice you’ve received and how has this impacted your life? ​

My mother left me a note on my bed after a bad day in high school years ago. It said: ‘I’m not going to like everyone and not everyone is going to like me. Love Mum.’ I will never forget that and how it gave me back my sense of control and power. I think it speaks so many important ideas – like not worrying about what is out of your control; worry about what is... learn to pick your battles etc. It is one of the many things I have learnt from her that has given me my rational mind and empowered me to be in control of my life and choices. And to let go of things that I can’t control.

How do you block out your fears?

I try to focus on doing and avoid overthinking. It usually helps to take myself to the worst case scenario (in a positive way if that makes sense) and say to myself - ‘So what if this fails? At least you tried and put it out there for yourself. Otherwise you would have never known the outcome. I’m always ‘talking’ to myself (haha).

What’s something you get to experience that you previously took for granted? ​

I LOVE that WAYF has become actual work! To see where it has taken me is incredible. It is now very much a job, when it was previously a passion project/ something I worked on from my bedroom as a very personal creative exercise. But it speaks to so many people who relate to its sentiment and it has led me to the most incredible places and opportunities. I pinch myself very often.

 Sabina wears our Ndani merino wool turtleneck and Shiriki A-Line Skirt.

Which cause are you willing to fight for?

I’m willing to fight for everyone to feel like they can be a whole person no matter what race, or multiple-races or mix of cultures make them who they are. And of course no matter who they love, their ability or circumstances. I think fighting to be seen as whole is a big one for me, as being of mixed-race and culture I am displaced a lot by the way other people perceive me. I’ve learnt that I'm not alone in that experience. For a lot of people living here and in other predominantly white-colonised places, it's constant othering, no matter where you actually ‘belong’ or where you were born, or whose land you are settled on. We should be able to define our sense of identity for ourselves. Not be broken apart and compartmentalised in the way that we are.

What’s a hard lesson that you were grateful to learn?

I think it is important to take risks. Sometimes that means doing something that maybe you have been told to definitely not do (haha). But in order to find out what an opportunity or letting go of something that’s not serving you might bring, embracing vulnerability and trusting your gut is so important.

I often think back to when I returned home from living in New York. I came home to finish my Psychology degree, which I was resuming in my third year. I knew almost instantly that it wasn't right and had to make the very hard decision to drop out. It was terrifying, but I did it and I enrolled in writing pretty much immediately after that. It was the best thing I ever did.

Life in New York taught me that I was meant to create and even though that challenged everything I thought I knew about myself at the time, and everything I had planned for my future, it was the absolute truth. I would not be where I am today if I hadn't followed that instinct. To me there is nothing more important than going after what is most meaningful and exciting to you. That’s how I understand the very meaning of life!

What did you want to be when you were a child?

I can't remember! But I think probably a singer or something glam like that - I loved the Spice Girls... I wanted to be a witch at some stage... I still have moments of wanting to be a witch.

Do you feel like wisdom is something you gain with age, or through lived experiences?

Definitely experience. I do think wisdom is made up of a lot of things... And that’s not to say that age can’t equal wisdom - to a degree. But as we age, it is inevitable that we will have more experiences that will make us wiser, but I think the type of lived experiences we have has much more of a profound impact on how evolved we are; our emotional intelligence, our foresight, our perspective and so on.

There are many people older than me who are wiser, yes but they are also very lacking in some of the above things I mentioned, which I believe I have been able to develop through lived experience. And also by having the self awareness to reflect and learn from those experiences. So I guess it is a bit of both - lived experiences = wisdom, but not without introspection and doing the work on ourselves to evolve too.

 What advice would you give to yourself 7 years ago?

You’re doing a good job and there is plenty of time :)

What drives you?

Things that excite me - art, passion, creativity, learning about and experiencing other cultures. My desire to create things that move people and validate people or challenge what they believe.

What’s your favourite piece from our Wisdom collection and how would you style it?

I love the Amani culottes! I’ve been wearing them with my oversized white jumper and boots. It’s comfy and casual but still something I can wear out for a coffee or walk or dress up for an evening out.

You can follow Sabina here and see more of the WAYF project here.

Rahel wears our Amani culottes and Ikoni blazer, Wintana wears our Sasa trench coat (available for pre-order) and Amani high waisted culottes.

At Collective Closets, we believe in individuality, authenticity, and celebrating the power of a woman. As businesswomen, we share the story of our influences and upbringing through our designs and the beautiful textiles we grew up with. We created Collective Conversations to spotlight the amazing women in our community and find out how they share their own stories. This series spotlights members of our tribe, gaining insight into their values, passions, and the drive behind what they do. 

Emily wears our Ikoni blazer, Ndani merino turtleneck and Urafiki high waisted pants. 

1. Describe yourself in three words? 

Low-key-quirky, passionate, open-hearted.

2. What's the best advice you've ever received, and how has it impacted your life? 

Some very basic advice that we've all heard, but maybe haven't considered properly is to not sweat the small stuff. My younger self heard that, but never took it on–it was so consuming to be worried about things that really didn't matter. You waste so much time consumed with thoughts that are, in actuality, a little pointless. I wish my younger self knew that.

 

Let go of friendships that are no longer rewarding. This may sound bitter, but as I have gotten older (and particularly after having a child) it's become clear to me that I don't have space for everyone in my life anymore. If you're gaining nothing from a friendship, you might be ready to let it go. Sure– it's a bit terrifying, but it will release you and you'll walk a little lighter. After having a child on top of running a small business, I've realised how precious my time is, and if someone else's problems are consuming you it might be time to take a step back. 

 

3. How do you block out your fears? 

By trying not to think about them. If I always thought about what scares me, I would literally accomplish nothing. I often act on a whim and don't think things through (much to my husband's frustration). I find that by doing this, I end up facing situations that would've probably consumed me if I had overthought. I recently found a new studio and I loved it. I was nervous to re-locate studios after being so comfortable, but I loved the space and just said yes! Taking that next step was scary, but I didn't allow myself the time to worry.

4. What's something you get to experience that you previously took for granted?  

Alone time ... since having [my son] Smith in November 2019, I've learnt how much I appreciate alone time (despite the fact it goes too quickly when it does come around)!

Before having a child, I didn't realise how much I appreciated 'alone time' because I was often alone or just with my partner. It's now one of my favourite things! You really don't know how good it is until it's gone (or more limited in my case).

5. Which cause are you willing to fight for? 

Gender equality– particularly equal pay and women's safety. I've worked in large corporations before and it's all too common still to see such an unbalance in power. I can't stand how it's still happening!

6. What's a hard lesson you were grateful to learn? 

Gosh it sounds so superficial, but I learnt the very hard way that you MUST DO YOUR TAX! Don't wait for five years of running a small business and working full time before working that shizz out. It ain't pretty ... particularly when your small side hustle is going quite well. If you don't work it out, at least keep some money aside knowing its going to come around and get you.

Honestly I wish I set Emeldo up properly at day one ... Emeldo was such an organic, gradual process and I didn't set things up properly. It's definitely taught me so many lessons, be they difficult ones or beautiful ones!

7. What did you want to be when you were a child? 

I wanted to work at my favourite shop– Myer. CUTE! After that, I wanted to work in fashion somehow ... but I can't draw to save myself and I thought I couldn't do fashion because I couldn't draw! If I didn't have Emeldo, I'd love to be back in my styling work for photoshoots– I love doing shoots! 

8. Do you feel like wisdom is something you gain with age, or through lived experiences?  

I think wisdom comes from both age and lived experiences. I have no doubt my wisdom is still coming! I've learnt so much by throwing myself into things as the years and meeting people along the way. At the age of 31, I'm sure a lot of wisdom is yet to come– there's always plenty of room to learn and grow.

Emily wears our wrap dress, coming out on the 26th of May!

At Collective Closets, we believe in individuality, authenticity, and celebrating the power of a woman. As businesswomen, we share the story of our influences and upbringing through our designs and the beautiful textiles we grew up with. We created Collective Conversations to spotlight the amazing women in our community and find out how they share their own stories. This series spotlights members of our tribe, gaining insight into their values, passions, and the drive behind what they do. 

This month we're talking to Melodee Malazarte and Stacey Earsman, best friends, first-generation daughters of immigrants and owners of the über-cool Migrant Coffee.

They met in their 20s at a breakdancing competition in New York (of course) and since then, have moved from friends, to flatmates, to business partners. We spent the afternoon with them at the beloved Migrant Cofee, nestled in the heart of West Footscray. But it's not just a cafe – as friends who share a love of culture and joy in daily ritual, Migrant Coffee is an homage to their heritage and home cuisines. Think amazing coffee and New York-style bagels, infused with Filipino, Thai and Island flavours. 

As a women-owned and run business, Stacey and Melodee's ethos is centred around equality, inclusion and celebrating the wonderfully diverse cultures that create their stories. You can catch them at 3/576 Barkly St, West Footscray. Come for the coffee, stay for the stories.

Describe yourselves in three words? 

Melo: A confident introvert.

Stacey: Self assured, relaxed, adaptable.

Where do you feel most at home?

Melo: Anywhere sharing food made with love amongst friends. That type of good food that feeds your everything, that I don’t need good posture or cutlery for.   

Stacey: Any social gathering at my home, with family, friends and my dog.

What do you do to nurture your individuality? 

Melo: By trusting in what makes me different.

Stacey: Eat when I’m hungry, drink when I’m thirsty and sleep when I’m tired - These simple steps (or my life motto) fills me with energy to do things that I enjoy. Whether it be, skating, drawing, entertaining at home, cooking, socialising, heading to the ocean, hanging out with my dog, friends and family

What do you love most about yourself?

Stacey: My skill to adapt to any situation very quickly. The confidence to make any uncomfortable situation, comfortable. I also really love my hair and my bod. My hot bod under all those baggy clothes I wear - it really does exist (lol)

Melo: I love that I’m here, and I’m healthy and happy. I love that I see the good in every situation, whether that be a win or a lesson. 

When did you last push the boundaries of your comfort zone?

Stacey: 11 years ago when I moved to Qatar in the Middle East. I went there to work as a Private Flight Attendant for the Royal Family and I hadn’t even heard of the country before I moved, I had no friends or any family there. I packed up everything and moved with one suitcase. In recent years I honestly can’t pick a time that I felt out of my comfort zone and that isn’t by choice, it would have to be a pretty drastic or overwhelming situation for me to feel like I am out of my depth or my comfort zone but would wholeheartedly accept and experience it again. Currently I’m in a situation where my awareness and pleasures for a love interest are something very new, which I haven’t experienced before. I’m usually quite quick to react, immediately problem solve and formulate ways that that things can fit into my life - but feelings are a whole new kettle of fish for me and most definitely out of my emotional comfort zone. I am trying to navigate slowly and hopeful things will organically come to a fruition

Melo: I’m practising vulnerability in relationships on the daily. I’m learning to be softer. I’m learning that my Aries way of communicating isn’t always the best or most effective way. But I like learning through discomfort so it’s a welcome process.  

What does it mean to honour yourself? 

Melo: I think of the women in my lineage that came before me and remember that I’m a product of their work. My mama came to Australia from the Philippines - our family comes from dirt floors and selling cacao at the markets to afford a small bag of rice and now I’m a university educated business owner in Australia. That's wild to me. That was her dream for her children - so in one generation she changed the course of her family legacy with straight hard work and determination. I honour that everyday by continuing to build for us and make the most of my time. That means doing my best and most meaningful work. That’s what Migrant is to me. It’s honouring our stories with a space made for our people. It also means taking care of myself. My mama passed away from cancer and my older brother died of suicide, so I have daily reminders that my wellbeing (spiritual, emotional and physical) is priority above all. I see it as a responsibility to live well to honour them.  

Stacey: Sticking to my values and morales. Respecting others and appreciating that everyone has had different life experiences. Being honest to myself and others. Enjoying life to its fullest and living for now.

Melo wears our Xiluva tee and Urafiki high waisted pants.

What have you recently become obsessed with?

Stacey: My dog (I rescued him less than 6 months ago) and those little peaches and cream lollies made by Allens, that you only get one or two in a whole pack, shame.

Melo: Sudoku. I’m very slowly graduating to a harder level and am just about to get into watching How To’s on youtube to get better at recognising patterns and learning tricks. I can see myself improving with each puzzle. Wow, numbers in boxes have really been getting me hyped in 2021.

Where is your favourite place to escape to? 

Melo: One of my favourite places is a dye house in Bali that I have worked with for a few years with my clothing label Home Pacifico. It’s super hard to find, in a rice field that’s about a 1.5 hour motorbike ride from Denpasar and a couple of minutes from a beautiful black sand beach. Everything they do there is a part of a beautiful organic process, from weaving the fabric on wooden looms, to growing the native Tarum plants on their farm (for indigo dye), to the stripping and fermentation process. It’s super grounding to witness the stages from process to product. My fave escapes usually involve some type of creative work, tropical island heat and motorbike adventures.

Stacey: A beach house, villa, camping, anywhere near an idyllic body of water, although if I could, I also love Marrakech and would go there to escape at any given time. I also love my house. My backyard and everything about it, it’s my most favourite place to escape, whether it be with others or on my own with my dog

What are some things that you are leaving behind, letting go of, or unlearning in order to move forward? (These could be beliefs, attitudes, emotional blockages, habits, even relationships)

Stacey: I moved on a very long time ago from caring about what others think. Not getting involved with anyone who create a negative space or feeling. Trusting my intuition. I’m learning to be more in touch with my feelings/emotions, I have always been the type of person who can very quickly and very easily detach. This is definitely due to the fact that I went to 15 different schools, lived with different family members, moved around a lot (rebellious tendencies as a teen), traveled a lot - so I never got attached to specific people, towns, I always new it was never going to be permanent. It was a sure way for me to not have to sit with how I feel inside but I know now that this plays a huge part on your being, your true self and allows you to grow. Being more vulnerable in relationships and not being so guarded, letting go of past negative experiences, learning from them and being consciously aware of how these can effect personal and shared growth.

Melo: The need for things to be (my perception of) perfect. I don’t believe in compromising on quality when it matters, but I’m letting go of applying this to everything. Did the fitout for Migrant need to be my perfect? To me, yes. Does the slice of cheese on my bagel need to sit totally symmetrical to the edge of the bagel? No. Move on, Melo.

Stacey wears our Xiluva tee and Urafiki high waisted pants.

When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried?

Melo: Stacey and I spend a lot of time together and find humour in the darkest of places, so we’ll find something to laugh at no matter the situation. So yeah, we cry-laugh everyday. 

Stacey: Last night - Most days that I spend with any one of my friends this always happens. When we get together, tears of laughter and sore abdominals, for others, happen all the time. It often happens to me when I’m on my own, I’ll think of something, or something will pop into my head that I find absolutely hilarious and laugh at myself because I have no-one else to share it with at the time.

Where can we find you? 

Visit us at 3/576 Barkly St, West Footscray! Follow us on Instagram here or visit our website here.

7. What have you recently become obsessed with? 

Trying to figure out how I keep killing my green babies. My plant cemetery has well and truly reached capacity!  

8. Where is your favourite place to escape to? 

Usually, the beach or anywhere I can get a glimpse of the sunset. They both have a fantastic way of making you feel like you are on holiday. During lockdown my housemate and I discovered we could escape to our roof, again pushing the comfort zone, but totally worth the sunset!

9. What are some things that you are leaving behind, letting go of, or unlearning in order to move forward? 

I’m leaving behind relationships that don’t nourish me. 

I’m letting go of fighting to be understood. 

I’m unlearning what I thought I knew about racism.

10. When was the last time you laughed so hard you cried? 

I have a dark sense of humour, it’s probably not appropriate to share.

11. Is there an item that you would like to see from Collective Closets in the future?

I’m dying to see Collective Closet prints on a beach towel or picnic rug!

You can follow A'Sika Jewellery on Instagram here and visit their website here. 

In a period of time when we're inundated with what feels like consistent bad news, we wanted to put some emphasis on the positive. This is another installment in "Collective Conversations," a weekly series focusing on a woman we think is awesome + what she's all about. This week we're talking to Susan Hardjono, graphic designer, curious cook, wearer of all hats, and founder of toko!, a Melbourne-based, eco-friendly label that carries basics for home, beauty, and travel. We fell for toko! about a year ago when we started stocking their Buka bags + Tali totes in-store. A Goop favourite, Susan and toko! have made waves with their simple, stylish, and functional designs. Today we talked to the woman behind it all about good food, setting limits, and BTS. 

4. Who do you most admire? 

I admire and adore my mama JoJo. She’s my best friend, my partner in crime, and my biggest supporter. She encourages and uplifts me daily to be my best and do my best. There might be times where she would share her own story, but from what I know and I have experienced, my mama embodies everything that I aspire to be. She’s carried our family on her backs, she lost herself several times trying to ensure we don’t. She is my dream come true. I am thankful daily that God chose her to be my mama. 

5. What is a weekly/monthly/fortnightly ritual or tradition you do for yourself? 

My weekly tradition is taking a day for myself. It’s me either sitting on my bed reading a novel, going for a walk, or just catching up on sleep, but it is always time I give back to myself. I listen to traditional musicians and cook my favourite Sierra Leonean dish (Casava leaf).

6. What is something you're proud of? 

I am proud of the community I have built online and in my real life, but I am most proud of the PEACE I have. Peace of mind, peace of purpose, and direction. To be in a place in my life where I am extremely comfortable with my direction. With everything going on in the world and coming from a space where my emotional and mental health was a shit storm, being in this place where I go to sleep at night feeling peace and waking up with peace is amazing. I am really proud of the emotional work I have done to get here. 

7. What are some traditions that you’ve adopted from somewhere or someone else?

One of my favourite traditions is eating together from the same bowl/plate. I adopted this from my parents. It's a communal style of eating and bonding. I remember as a child how much I hated sharing my food, but as an adult, I’ve recognised how fundamental those small traditions instilled and encouraged me to have a voice and speak up, especially when I wanted the biggest meat in the bowl lol. 

8. How do you align and connect with your intuition?

I align and connect with my intuition when I am my most vulnerable. This happens when I am transparent, honest and when I share my truth. I find that having these conversations online and sometimes in person, it allows people to recognise that we don’t always have together and that I also have bad days. 
 

9. What's an assumption others make about you?

A lot of times people assume I am Ghanaian. It makes sense because I am west African and spent a large chunk of my childhood in Ghana, but I am Sierra Leonean Girl. 

10. Is there an item that you would like to see from Collective Closets in the future? 

I would love to see your own range of African Masks. 

11. What is something you do to be kind to yourself?

I’ve started speaking kinder to myself. Since being diagnosed with endometriosis, my body has changed drastically. This is the heaviest I have ever been and I didn’t like it. I went through a time where I spoke poorly to myself because I didn’t like my reflection. I had to relearn and teach myself new ways to love me at every stage. On days where I don’t feel my best self, I speak kindly to myself and point out things that I love about myself. From my lips and hips to my smile to my ability to uplift others, these are traits I adore about myself and it doesn’t hurt to say out loud- it doesn’t hurt to recognise and praise it. 

You can follow Ma-Musu on Instagram here and visit her website here. 

In a period of time when we're inundated with what feels like consistent bad news, we wanted to put some emphasis on the positive. This is another installment in "Collective Conversations," a weekly series focusing on a woman we think is awesome + what she's all about. This week we're talking to Kemerlin Rich, authenticity guru, scholar, blogger and writer. She's Liberian and Southern Sioux, and values her rich and diverse lineage. Kemerlin uses her voice and influence to teach others about authenticity, communication and honesty. We talked to her about her favourite quarantine drink, her heritage and inutition.

1. Describe yourself in three words? 

Authentic, stylish, engaging.

2. What do heritage and tradition mean to you? 

Heritage is the pathway that shows us present-day joys and sorrows. Tradition is beautiful as long as it’s helping me to grow and not remain in a weakened mindset

3. Something that you're passionate about? 

I am passionate about being effective & purposeful in what I do; which includes my life in Christ. 

4. Who do you most admire? 

5. What is a weekly/monthly/fortnightly ritual or tradition you do for yourself? 

During this pandemic, it’s been to drink green-tea matcha daily. But as we’re getting settled (unfortunately) into pandemic life… I think it’s going to start being secluded getaways. 

6. What is something you're proud of? 

How I’ve grown as a creative.

7. What are some traditions that you’ve adopted from somewhere or someone else?

Ummm, let me think. Well, it would be my mom and the way she makes cornbread. You can’t tell me that mine isn’t better now. And please y’all don’t tell her. But the way she cooks with so much intention and excellence even when it’s just tuna. 

8. How do you align and connect with your intuition?

By listening. Because I am in Christ, my intuition is a barometer that God uses to speak and guide His children. If we listen, we become more keen.. if we don’t, we become dull. So I guess I’m saying obedience is how I align and connect to my intuition.

9. What's an assumption others make about you?

Ummm, that I am hard to approach. I guess intimidating. I am the kind of person who thinks about cake with a straight face. So it’s my disposition. But I’m also aware of my heritage. I am Liberian Bassa. And my lineage is Mende and Esan. We were warriors. So yes, I guess that can be intimidating. But I’m so cool it’s not even funny. But my intuition is sharp.

10. Is there an item that you would like to see from Collective Closets in the future? 

I’m thinking maybe jogger sets… It could be sporty /chic. 

11. What is something you do to be kind to yourself?

Spend time alone and hang up the phone.. (That rhymes.. lol)

You can follow Kemerlin on Instagram here and visit her website here. 

In a period of time when we're inundated with what feels like consistent bad news, we wanted to put some emphasis on the positive. This is another instalment in "Collective Conversations," a weekly series focusing on a woman we think is awesome + what she's all about. This week we're talking to Nynno (or Nonny) Bel-Air, multi-disciplinary artist, photographer and budding musician. Self-taught and based in Melbourne, she uses her art to explore a vast range of the world's subcultures, specialising in fashion and portrait photography. And we're not the only ones who think she's incredible- she's captured the likes of Vogue Australia, Frankie, Nylon and Forbes. 

1. Describe yourself in three words? 

Curious, creative, conscientious.

2. What does heritage and tradition mean to you? 

Heritage and tradition are storylines, like keys points on a map that give context to your journey through life. 

3. Who do you most admire? 

I admire people who have learnt the ability to love themselves unconditionally, they are the most resilient.

4. What is a weekly/monthly/fortnightly ritual or tradition you do for yourself? 

I don’t have any rituals at the moment. I’m taking every week as it comes and making space for whatever my body and mind need on a weekly basis. 

5. What is something you’re proud of? 

I’ve had the opportunity to work on a few amazing projects this year, which has led to some of my photography being featured in magazines like The Design Files, Frankie, Nylon, Vogue Australia and most recently, Forbes. It’s slightly surreal.

6. What's something you do to be kind to yourself?

I’m a firm believer in self-care. This can be anything from going on a scenic hike, journaling, consuming art, or taking a day to just be and sit with myself.

7. What are some traditions that you’ve adopted from somewhere or someone else?

Weekly Whatsapp check-ins with my family. I have a big family and we’re all spread over the globe, so the chat group has become the best way to catch up on all the tea.

8. How do you align and connect with your intuition?

I’m a long-term lover of lists, I firmly believe in them. If I’m serious about achieving something, it has to be written down. I also find that making time to meditate, manifest and be mindful is important. All of the above allow me to check in with myself, make sure I’m on track with my plans and not get too distracted. 

9. What's an assumption others make about you?

That I’m extroverted. Extended periods of social interaction actually leave me drained, I need solitude to recharge.

10. Is there an item that you would like to see from Collective Closets in the future? 

I love everything you’re doing at the moment. But if you ever decide to release swimwear or bedding capsule collections, my bank account will be ready. 

In a period of time when we're inundated with what feels like consistent bad news, we wanted to put some emphasis on the positive. This is another instalment in "Collective Conversations," a weekly series focusing on a woman we think is awesome + what she's all about. This week we're talking to Steph Watt, the Brunswick-based designer and maker behind the brand Dorkus Designs. With a background in industrial design, Steph utilises a fusion of modern technology and handcrafting techniques to create her beautifully unique pieces. The best part is- our store will be stocking Steph's Dorkus Design pieces very soon! Today we chatted to her creative practice, op shopping and living with chronic illness. 

1. Describe yourself in three words? 

Silly, bright, thoughtful.

2. What does heritage and tradition mean to you? 

Being together with loved ones! Together anytime, anywhere, light-hearted to more meaningful- traditions seem to pop up. Summertime is when most of my life long traditions happen, mixed among beach days & late night dinners with family & mates.

3. Something that you’re passionate about?

Accessibility! It’s something I love to see but don’t always see or experience. Living with chronic illness/disability, I have a particular interest in that area. I love that in the internet age I have access to stories directly from clever, funny, sexy, thoughtful, disabled community members anytime. Looking forward to seeing more on & offline. All aboard the accessibility train!

In a period of time when we're inundated with what feels like consistent bad news, we wanted to put some emphasis on the positive. This is another instalment in "Collective Conversations," a weekly series focusing on a woman we think is awesome + what she's all about. This week we're talking to Lilah Benetti, taste-maker, photo-taker and art-creator here in Melbourne. She held her first solo exhibition Easy Ghana last year and not slowed down since, founding the company No Ordinary Design Era and continuing to share her creative vision through different mediums. Today we chatted to her about origins, coffee and her favourite book.

1. Describe yourself in three words? 

Ambitious. Adaptable. Kind.-hearted.

2. What does heritage and tradition mean to you? 

I think heritage and tradition bring meaning and purpose to life. As a person of colour, it is important that we have an understanding of our journey as a people in this world and these are practices or ways of being that give us pride and connection to ourselves and our ancestors.

3. Something that you’re passionate about?

I love having the ability to influence understanding. Naturally we all try to put people in boxes, often without awareness, so I love the thought of being able to bring presence to this and present an idea that may spark the viewer to challenge themselves. To make good art is to hold a mirror up to society and present an idea that evokes reflection; my purpose is to do this with across cultures.

4. Who do you most admire? 

This is a difficult one to answer, as there are so many different qualities in the people I love and are closest too that I admire. I love that I have people around me every day that I look up to but I would like to mention one of my favorites that almost everyone should know Sidney Poitier. His biography ‘This Life’ was something I read until it fell apart and has inspired so much of me. Sidney Poitier leads with grace, intention, hard work and never accepted what others told him was possible of his life. I highly recommend that book.

5. What is a weekly/monthly/fortnightly ritual or tradition you do for yourself?

I know this is so Melbourne but I love my morning coffee. It’s the simple things you know?! The ability to take time to stop and look at the world around you, to reflect on time passed and make plans for the what is to come. Coffee shops are like a little conversion point that puts a pep in our step before we head out to change the world and I think its really cool that people just like to treat themselves to a morning coffee before going about their day. I’m a real people watcher and anyone who has worked with me knows I’m big on making lists, so it also allows me the time to do that too, which brings me a bit of peace and presence. Or maybe I am just addicted to coffee! Probably a bit of both and I’m okay with that.

6. What is something you’re proud of? 

I’m very proud of the person I am becoming. I am intentional and try to lead with integrity in everything I do. No matter how cliche it might seem, the world would be a better place if we all took some time to love and appreciate ourselves more often.

7. What's something you do to be kind to yourself?

I try to always make time to be gentle to myself and celebrate the little wins. With this year so heavy on our hearts I think it is more important than ever to check in with yourself, physically and mentally. I think we are at a point where even the thought of having to practice ‘self-care’ can almost become a bit overwhelming so I try to just take it super easy on myself sometimes and just rest. Self -care looks different for everyone and a lot of the time being kind to myself looks like a craft beer, a some good food and a cheesy 90’s thriller on the home projector (movie recommendations welcome).

8. What are some traditions that you’ve adopted from somewhere or someone else? 

I think that would have to be my hair! Growing up in a mixed race family with my mother being Italian, bless my mum for trying but I had to learn most things hair related on my own accord. As I got older I realised that there is something so beautiful on a spiritual and ritualistic level about the bonding process between black woman when it comes to hair. I think I really learned how to take care of my own hair from my YouTube sisters across the world!

9. How do you align and connect with your intuition?

Like most things, I think this comes with practice and a knowing of ones self, like a DEEP knowing of yourself, and a constant forgiveness of yourself. I think you gotta really face yourself in all of your fears in order to really know yourself in your light and in your shadow. It’s the moments when I stop and appreciate my life and journey that humble me and allow me to connect with my true self. Connecting with your intuition takes presence, awareness and bit of vulnerability too. I would say connecting and aligning with your intuition is almost like having the ability to be in conversation with your higher self.

10. What's an assumption others make about you?

I think when I enter most professional spaces with my braids, twists, no makeup, dressing the way I do and such, carrying a sense of pride and speaking in an articulate and confident manner people are often surprised. They don’t always tell me what their assumption of me are, but I know my purpose is to make room in these spaces for others who look like me.

In a period of time when we're inundated with what feels like consistent bad news, we wanted to put some emphasis on the positive. This is another instalment in "Collective Conversations," a weekly series focusing on a woman we think is awesome + what she's all about. This week we're talking to Lei Lei Clavey, a wedding + editorial photographer, blogger and mum who moved from the Big Apple to pursue her business in Melbourne. Her blog Lei Lady Lei covers everything from style and sustainability to self-help and motherhood notes. We talked to her about photography, horoscopes and how to keep a positive mindset.

1. Describe yourself in three words? 

Creative, optimistic, sustainably-minded.

2. What does heritage and tradition mean to you? 

I'm half Australian-Chinese and half American so I grew up surrounded by different cultures and traditions, the majority of which were experienced and shared around food! I loved the mix and exposure I had to all of them. It really framed me to be who I am today.

3. Something that you’re passionate about?

Photography, especially capturing those moments that loved ones will look back on in years to come.

4. Who do you most admire? 

Women who have made a name for themselves doing what they love. My mother is an excellent example. She found her passion for writing later in life, once my brother and I had grown up and now she's a successful published author and illustrator. It's never too late to do something you love.

5. What is a weekly/monthly/fortnightly ritual or tradition you do for yourself?

Every month I love to read my horoscope- Susan Miller is a favourite -and write down the key dates and prospects on the horizon. While I don't 100% believe in star signs, they're a fun indulgence I allow myself. Once we're out of lockdown I would love to reintroduce yoga back into my weekly routine. It's so important as a parent to carve out that time just for yourself. Also as my son grows up, I would love to introduce traditions such as Sunday family lunches.

6. What is something you’re proud of? 

Building my editorial and wedding photography business this year! I have wanted to start my own business for the longest time but only within the last year after my son was born have I really made the leap. I have invested in online education about business and photography, branding, copywriting and a new website that is all set to launch in a few months! I've also started selling some fine art prints which has become a fun part of the business. I couldn't be more excited and proud about what I have achieved and how I have grown in this time.

7. What's something you do to be kind to yourself?

I know that I am impacted by negative news and devastating stories especially involving families and children (after having my son this year, I've found these stories particularly difficult) that instead I purposely listen, read and absorb content that is positive, motivating and inspiring. This keeps my mind and thoughts in a better place for me to create and provide for others.

8. What are some traditions that you’ve adopted from somewhere or someone else? 

Cooking. There are so many great cooks in my family and over the years I've learnt little bits and pieces from them. While I'm not overly skilled, I find it a relaxing activity and love sharing what I've made with family and friends.

11. Is there an item you would like to see from Collective Closets in the future?

Colourful printed jumpsuits for stylish mums on the go!

You can follow Lei Lei on her Instagram here or visit her blog Lei Lady Lei here.

In a period of time when we're inundated with what feels like consistent bad news, we wanted to put some emphasis on the positive. This is the another instalment in "Collective Conversations," a weekly series focusing on a woman we think is awesome + what she's all about. This week we're talking to our girl, fashion graduate, writer and ex-influencer Isabella Wight. She used to be a blogger under the alias Views of Now, but now resides here in Melbourne and is our right-hand girl for everything from customer service, to graphic design and sharing her social media skillset. While she's not spending time behind the counter at our store, she loves to read, write, nap in the sun, talk (a lot) and drink wine with her housemates.

1. Describe yourself in three words? 
Empathetic, self-aware, tenacious.

2. What does heritage and tradition mean to you? 
They are intrinsic aspects of who we are as people, the fundamental building blocks that create the wonderfully diverse society we live in. Since moving to Melbourne from the Sunshine Coast, I’ve had the opportunity to learn so much more about different cultural histories and the rituals within them. It’s a cliche, but it truly is a wonderful melting pot in this city, and it baffles me that there was so much I didn’t know before. I’m grateful my time here at Collective Closets for teaching me a lot, too.

3. Something that you’re passionate about? 
Consciousness in the fashion industry. There is so much that is shielded from us as consumers, and I’ve learnt that ignorance is certainly not always bliss. I’m passionate about brand accountability, about doing your own research into the origins of your wardrobe and making a positive social and environmental impact in any way that you can. Knowing the importance of my dollar and where I choose to spend has made me feel so empowered!

4. Who do you most admire? 
I’m lucky to have so many female role models in my life who have moulded the way I treat myself and the people around me. For a long time I didn’t understand the importance of feminism in my own life, of being able to challenge societal ideologies that were engrained in me for so long. I have those women to thank for that.

 It’s another cliche (I love them, sue me) but my mum is one of the kindest and most intelligent people I know. Having parents that wholeheartedly supported me, let me make mistakes  and taught me decision-making skills (it took a while, but I got there) set the example for how I want to raise my kids one day in the very distant future. 

5. What is a weekly/monthly/fortnightly ritual or tradition you do for yourself? 
In isolation I’ve found real solace in taking long walks by myself or with a friend. Exercise was always a cause of anxiety for me, something I didn’t have great associations with, but walking makes me feel relaxed. I listen to a podcast or debrief on the day, vent if I need to, pat a cute dog along the way if I’m allowed. It’s a sanity-saving ritual right now.

6. What is something you’re proud of? 
The life I have here in Melbourne. Moving was terrifying and it took a while for me to find my feet away from my familiar creature comforts. I’ve still got a lot of growing to do but I have good friends, I love working here at Collective Closets and I’m closer to being an adult than I thought I’d ever be.

7. What's something you do to be kind to yourself? 
I’ve stopped believing that guilty pleasures should actually make me feel guilty. When I’m feeling a bit blue, I will unashamedly watch trashy TV, order my favourite takeout, read a chick-lit romance novel and listen to bad early 2000s Top 40 music. I’ve never been a person who got embarrassed very easily and I am now very comfortable in my lame self-care activities. There is such thing as a really bad good movie, OK?! The whole “guilty” part of the guilty pleasures really took the fun out of it.

8. What are some traditions that you’ve adopted from somewhere or someone else? 
My mum is American- Texan, specifically -and she brought Thanksgiving into our lives when we were kids. She’d spend days making mounds of food- pumpkin and pecan pie, turkey, stuffing, greens, sweet potato casserole, cranberry sauce and bread rolls- and we’d invite all of our family, friends and neighbours over. There’d be a little kids table we’d always sit at and the grown-ups table, where everyone would eat and drink until they couldn’t anymore. It’s definitely an indulgent (and time consuming, we’d spend days cooking) holiday but it was about being thankful. We never did a big Christmas and most of our family lives in the US, so it was a way for us to feel connected to them. My mum would hang a giant Texan flag over our verandah and we would have an Australian-American celebration. 

9. How do you align and connect with your intuition?
Truthfully, I’d never really thought about it until this question. I write and journal often, which I suppose is my way of processing feelings and dissecting my rapid-fire thoughts. I know intuition is more of a personal thing but I’m a huge extrovert, and I feel at peace once I’ve vocalised what I’m feeling and been able to have a conversation. We’re all a little irrational sometimes and sometimes once you’ve said it out loud, you realise how small the thought or issue really is.
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10. What's an assumption others make about you?
That I never take myself very seriously which, to be fair, I don’t most of the time. My humour relies heavily on self-deprecation and it’s definitely become a kind of coping mechanism. Doesn’t mean my feelings don’t get hurt, but it does mean I’m quicker to get over it, I suppose. I’m always my harshest critic. 

11. Is there an item you would like to see from Collective Closets in the future? 
I’m so proud of everything we’ve done as a brand so it’s hard to say. Maybe a short skirt for summer. Something like our twin sets (coming out tomorrow!) but with a mini. 

In a period of time when we're inundated with what feels like consistent bad news, we wanted to put some emphasis on the positive. This is the another instalment in "Collective Conversations," a weekly series focusing on a woman we think is awesome + what she's all about. This week we're talking to Julia Browne, the woman behind the alias STYLE SHIFTER. Using her platform, Julia shares styling tips, tricks to make the most out of your wardrobe and is constantly promoting the work of local and independent designers. Her style is colourful, bold and eclectic- much like her.

1. Describe yourself in three words? 

Honest, empathetic, resilient.

2. What does heritage and tradition mean to you? 

When I think about heritage and tradition, I immediately think about what a beautiful and diverse world we live in, where there is constant learning and a celebration that we are all so uniquely different. Our heritage and tradition really gives us an insight into our belief systems, our ancestors, the way we dress, the food we eat, what we value and how we tread on this earth. For me it’s about taking the guidance and direction of those before us, being curious about the practises that were so naturally inherent in their ways of life and honouring this. I am uniquely positioned in the sense that I have parents who are from different parts of the world. My father is from Egypt and my mother is from Greece, so my upbringing allowed me to really bask in different cultures, language, food and beliefs. I think more specifically though, growing up with different cultures really made me acutely aware of how identity and belonging can bring us together, but also separate us as we see in so many parts of the world – even right here in our own backyard. As a young person, given my multicultural background I often felt like I didn’t belong to a specific, defined group – but it is my ‘otherness’ that has driven my work and deeper purpose for all people to be seen, and it is this that has cultivated my deep respect for communities of colour who are often ‘othered’ or not seen as the majority, when in fact – it is BIPOC who are the mainstream. When we talk about heritage and tradition, for me it is also about yelling from the rooftops that POC are the original vanguards of sustainability, thoughtfulness and regenerative care for the land. Given I work in the sustainable fashion space, heritage and tradition for me also means there needs to be a collective acknowledgement and awareness of Ancestral and Indigenous wisdom, and that we need to respect and not exploit or appropriate rituals, icons or cultures. 

3. Something that you’re passionate about? 

Having worked in the fashion industry - with varying stakeholders - for the past 11 years, I’ve witnessed and experienced first-hand the oppressive systems in which fashion is built on, and wanted to be part of disrupting and dismantling this, and created a platform for BIWoC communities to be the curators of their own stories and take back their rightful space and position in the fashion and sustainability context. This is how tommie magazine was born, as a way to elevate the diverse voices that make up our country, and to also demonstrate the naturally, intuitive and sustainable ways of living, WOC encompass. I’m super passionate about redefining and decolonising sustainability in the fashion space and environmentalism more specifically, to centre Black, Indigenous and People of colour communities; the original pioneers and trailblazers of sustainability. 

I’m also hugely passionate about second hand clothing and the way this offers us as individuals the opportunity to connect with our identity, the opportunity for self-expression and the celebration of difference and personal style. But also raising awareness and offering education into why it’s so important we support brands that are made ethically, locally, with artisanal traditions, use sustainable fibres etc. Wearing preloved clothing - and brands built with intention and social progress -  is a way we can position our views on labour rights, Womxn’s rights and the welfare and rights of BIPOC around the world. Clothing is more than constructing an outfit to look aesthetically pleasing; what we choose to wear is a reflection of society, the inequities between races, the exploitative labour systems that still exist in the Global South, the land that was taken away from Black and Indigenous people and how colonialism is rooted in fashion. The way we dress is political when it comes to culture, heritage, identity and history – and can lead to radical change. 

Another area I’m hugely passionate about is mobilising and activating local community, I think large scale change starts at your dinner table, and in your neighbourhood. Leading, running and organising events and gatherings in my local community has been so rewarding as I’ve seen how education and creativity really inspires change in people. And I love being an accessible bridge or pathway for people to access schools of thought, information or an understanding of systems they may have not known about.

4. Who do you most admire? 

That’s a tricky question – it’s interesting because growing up I didn’t really have role models, or Women I admired. Now as an adult, there are so many Women in my life in whom I admire. Women like you both, who live their truth every day, who are navigating such important conversations through the medium of fashion. But if I had to choose a specific person, I’d say Oprah. She was able to bring some of the most ‘taboo’ and not talked about issues to a mainstream audience. She will always hold a special place in my heart, as it is her talk show where my mother learnt that being in a violent relationship is not OK. My Mum often references that episode as her introduction into learning about the patterns and viscous cycle of Domestic Violence, and I think Oprah has been able to touch so many people’s lives in accessible ways like this. My hope is that through my own work and advocacy I offer a space to talk about the ‘uncomfortable’ things, the things we as a society are too sacred to talk about, in a safe way without judgement or critique. 

5. What is a weekly/monthly/fortnightly ritual or tradition you do for yourself? 

Rituals and traditions aren’t the thing I’m great at – it’s actually probably my greatest weakness in that I’ve not learnt the art of carving time out for myself. But I’m slowly getting better at it. I find my calm and peace in cooking. I love the mediation in movement and the texture and colour of all the vegetables, herbs and spices I use. I’m vegan, so making delicious, nourishing and vibrant food is part of my self-care routine. 

I’ve also just bought myself a tarot deck, ‘NEO TAROT’ by Jerico Mandybur and this kind of self-reflection has been very healing for me, but also very joyful! 

Also, I don’t think we talk about it publically enough, but I go to therapy every week and have since my mid 20’s. I think attending therapy should be accessible to every single person; it has helped me work through child-hood trauma, and just the everyday grind life offers. This is a ritual I don’t ever compromise on, no matter how full or busy my weeks are, I never miss a session. We talk so much as a society about working out our bodies, but we don’t talk enough about exercising the mind. And I think that stigma needs to change. 

One other thing I do for myself, is to dress however please – for me, not for anyone else. This means lots of colours and lots of pattern clashing!

6. What is something you’re proud of? 

I think one of the things that I’m proudest of is my freedom – being able to escape an oppressive child-hood environment, and really being the architect of my own life. Creating every page, the way in which is most authentic to me; which in large part means being of service to WOC specifically. I want to offer a space and platform through tommie that really highlights and celebrates the voice of WOC, and the unique journey and stories we have. But also ensuring that WOC of all ages understand their worth. I’m proud that I’ve chosen a path where I can be a resource, bridge and even confidant for others. Change is really important to me – small and large scale – so to see how my actions or knowledge can help guide people, is really so fulfilling.

7. What's something you do to be kind to yourself? 

I’m learning the art of saying, ‘no. I’m not very good at it yet, but I’m in my learning stages. Also, surrendering and accepting are ways I’m being kind to myself. So really embracing these principles as radical acts of kindness. And giving myself the permission to just ‘let go’. And affording myself the empathy and compassion I easily offer others.

8. What are some traditions that you’ve adopted from somewhere or someone else? 

I think my real, deep appreciation for making do with what you have and really extending the life of things whether it’s food, clothes, products. I grew up in a very thrifty household where most of what we owned was second hand. This is definitely a tradition that has been handed down to me - this modern, western ideology of ‘sustainability’ was embedded in how I grew up. Being resourceful and getting the maximum value and use out of everything was really engrained in me from a young age. 

And also, this idea of being principled and ethical. It’s interesting, my father was very flawed in many ways through his actions and often was quite limited in what he could demonstrate to me. But through his words, he taught me that honesty and having a high moral compass was so important in life. And I’ve really carried this through my life.  Always seeking change and challenging mainstream systems is something that was also handed down – this idea of making sure we challenge the capitalist society we live in and seeing the exploitation in systems to create more equitable opportunities for people.

My mum handed down to me this beautiful, whimsical look on life – that there is joy in every moment, and that every moment is an opportunity for service, care and healing to others. I definitely get my ‘selflessness’ and nurturing side from my mum, always putting others first before thinking about myself.

9. How do you align and connect with your intuition?

I am a big believer in solo time as I believe this really allows the space for reflection. I think we all have access to our intuition, but I think in this busy fast-paced world we live in, we are often disconnected to our purpose, and are more concerned with ticking things off our ‘to do list’. These kinds of actions don’t ignite our intuition. I actually think as a society, especially in a western context, we feel we have a strong grasp and control on life – when we really don’t. I think life’s hurdles, struggles and pain really help you strengthen your gut feeling. I also feel when my gut or intuition is there to tell me something, if I don’t listen straight away, it appears in other representations. Our bodies generally react to what’s right or wrong if our mind hasn’t caught up, or it isn’t ready. So really feeling any sensory changes in your body. I know if I’m doing something I should have said, ‘no’ to, or something doesn’t feel right – I feel it in my body through physical pain immediately. Everyone has different ways they connect with their intuition, but there are signs – we just have to be open to listening. I have a real affinity to my intuition, and even to how others are feeling. I think a lot of it has to do with energy, and I’ve developed this over time as I’m really perceptive with people’s behaviours. I’m so curious about people, how they move, how they act – what we as humans do in general. And I think this sensitivity and curiosity develops your sense of self too.

10. What's an assumption others make about you?

That I am balanced and don’t stress out! This couldn’t be farther from the truth. I think it *may* look like it from the outside in, but I’m always wanting to do more, offer more to more people. Balance may not be possible or achievable, but I think it’s important to try to aim for it. But it’s definitely not something I have!

11. Is there an item you would like to see from Collective Closets in the future? 

I absolutely love all that you do and what you stand for! My Collective Closets culottes are worn several times a week – and I always get compliments when I wear them! Thank you for using fashion as a powerful tool to communicate style, but also as a way to invite Women to share their journey and stories!